Pay No Attention to The Screaming Chickens

Change always brings with it fear and loathing for many, for example the weird behavior around health care reform. We are heading into some dangerous times because of peoples rigid ideas about the world need to loosen up, and that process makes some people a little crazy. When someone says maybe we should look at these problems and think about some solutions, some people usually run around screaming that the sky is falling. They are not able to get past the emotional stage of thinking to look at all the information carefully.

Eventually most good decisions are made with our emotions, but there needs to be a period of gathering evidence and internal and external debate and reasoning before humans can make good decisions about complex issues. A complex decision usually contains too much information for most people to sort through realistically, but if you supply the information to your brain by reading, listening, and participating in open minded discussion, often your brain can figure it out and give you the answer by the way you feel about it. The problem we are experiencing now is that there are so many people that are afraid to look at evidence or ponder the questions without fear. Fear is the thought killer and mind clouder. It is the bodies alarm system. Have you ever tried to do any kind of reasoning when there are sirens and bells and red flashing lights. It is almost impossible to think when your mind is telling you run and hide or fight.

What we need is a little leadership from people in the media and politicians. They need to tone down the partisan rhetoric and fear mongering so people can digest some information. Otherwise we will have a bunch of Chicken Littles in hard hats screaming about things that they are too afraid of the sky to look up and see if it is falling or not. This kind of behavior usually incites other crazy behavior and pretty soon you have people with guns and explosives claiming to have the answer and it involves some kind of violence against some vague group. History is full of this. Hopefully not this time. Hopefully people can stop and think and look around and not listen to the screamers. Screamers are usually wrong because they can only hear the sirens going off  in their own heads.

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Thinking About The Way People Think

I have been thinking and reading a lot lately about the way people think. Reading the novel, “Black Boy” by Richard Wright and listening a lecture about the author and changes he had to make in order to get it published in a popular format is the station where this train started. The story is about a black child growing up in the south during the early 1900’s and how he comes to raise his consciousness above the level of the stifling cultural gridlock of the racial caste system with its predetermined roles and attitudes. At one point he had to teach himself to play the part of the “good nigger” in order to get work so that he would not to starve. From then on he lives in two worlds, his own mind in which he is discovering philosophy and literature, and his life in which he must play a demeaning role that has rules about how to act in almost every situation. He had to act like he was unable to think clearly while he was aware of  the fact that he knew more about thinking than the people who expected him to be ignorant. We all live with rules of behavior, but mostly they coincide with the way we think with some minor adjustments in certain situations. This man had to think of how white people thought about him as a young black person. His survival depended on it. I have never been in such a situation, but he made me feel it and know it. This to me is an invaluable gift of understanding, when we are able to feel and know a reality that we have not experienced in the corporeal world.

At times reading this book was deeply disturbing, to see the way people can treat other people when ignorance and fear prevail over reason and empathy. I came away from this book with a feeling that, even though the history of western philosophy and literature travels a very bumpy road, if a person can learn to read and understand a broad range of literature, he or she is more capable of overcoming some of the stifling aspects of their culture. Reading is the best way to find new ways of thinking and gaining an understanding of the broader world, and writing is the best way to get people to understand your thoughts and ideas and where they came from.

Shortly after finishing “Black Boy” I started reading a book about the way the brain works called “How We decide” by Jonah Lehrer. I have not finished this one, but so far the book has shown how both feelings and reason are useful in making decisions. Each has strengths and weaknesses. In order to make good decisions we have to use the cognitive strategy best suited to the task. For decisions which have a split second or very short time frame and lots of variables, going with your gut instincts, or what feels the best, is actually the most effective strategy, especially if you have experience or have practiced in similar conditions. Your subconscious mind will alert you to dangers or benefits through your feelings. But, you have to make the decision mostly trusting intangible evidence. However, you don’t want to use your feelings when buying a car or making long term life decisions. The book also discusses the limitations on the amount of information the human mind can handle and how with each added level of complexity the ability of the human mind to make good assumptions diminishes. The book is filled with real life examples and academic studies, lots of evidence and complexity. I wonder if it will actually help me make better decisions. Anyway it is fascinating. Kind of  a users guide to the brain.

So how do these books connect. I am not sure, but somewhere in our brain is place that can understand things that we have not experienced. We can visualize things we have not seen and hear music we have never listened to with our ears. This is part of our mind we use to think our most complex thoughts. I believe it is the place where empathy begins. When I try to understand how another person might see my behavior, that is the point where I can become a more effective moderator of culture, steering it toward equality and tolerance. The decisions we make every day affect our society. If you encounter people responding to the world out of ignorance and fear and you can identify it, then you can confront it. You can decide to move in a different direction. Even though that path may be a difficult one, you can only choose it if you can see it.

I will leave you with this link to one of my favorite examples of  a critical thinking fail, the battle of wits from “the Princess Bride” in which Vizini tries to outwit the Man in Black. Vizini obviously needed to add another level of complexity to his thought process.

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At The Edge of Day

Here, on the borderlands, we live in paper houses

Sleep on rocks and logs and bathe in the rain.

It is a striking existence.

We are made substantial by our deeds and voices.


Water clouds the world with wet and weather

Brings toads writhing up through the mud,

Cactus into bloom.

Pain brings clarity to our dreams and

Staggers through our days like a drunkard

On a ship in a howling storm.

The tossing straightens its path into our hearts.


We breathe the air of desperation.

In the smoky evenings of fire,

Singed by sparks we rage and stomp

among the glowing coals.

Grunting, we pummel the charred wood

sending the showering cinders skyward.


This cannot last.

These days of abandon

that scream against the black pit of forgetting.

We will not remember when we wake to the street sounds

And the abyssal meandering chatter of loose minded drainpipes

That dawn brings dripping and humming, louder and louder

until brutal wordless chant leaps away.

And we are separated into the day.

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You Can Still Cross the Water After the Bridge Burns.

After I read this post at Russian Ramblings. I started thinking about a few friendships I have walked away from because of  some harsh words or some spiky, defensive behavior, or the times when I chased some friends away when I fell into a depression or had some difficulties and took some of it out on my friends even though I would regret it later.

When a friend is pushing you away and is behaving in a very unfriendly manner, it is often a sign of shutting down the emotional grid. Sometimes  you have to think about whether or not you can actually help them without going down with the relationship. You have to assess your abilities and strengths and see how they match up with the difficulties.  You may have to back off a little, but a few well meaning questions, a low pressure invitation, just a “hey, did ya know I was thinking about you” approach can make a big difference. Maybe your friend just needs to know who her real friends are, friends that will hang in there through the tough battles.  Just because someone lights your bridge on fire, doesn’t mean you have to let it burn, or that you can’t come back in a little while in a small boat and talk about rebuilding.

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Doodling Day

I have been playing with some photos of the wood grain on the walls and ceiling in my bedroom. I get lost in color and form. It is like exploring  the landscape of a new world.

I slip into hyperfocus and travel into the images, lost for hours deep in my own space.

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