Remembering Forgetting
I
From “Little Gidding“
Part V, stanza II
With the drawing of this Love and the voice of this calling
We shall not cease from exploration
And the end of all our exploring
Will be to arrive where we started
And know the place for the first time
Through the unknown, remembered gate
When the last of earth left to discover
Is that which was the beginning;
At the source of the longest river
The voice of the hidden waterfall
And the children in the apple-tree
Not known, because not looked for
But heard, half-hearted, in the stillness
Between two waves of the sea
Quick now, here, now, always —
A condition of complete simplicity
(Costing not less than everything)
And all shall be well and
When the tongues of flame are in-folded
Into the crowned knot of fire
and the fire and the rose are one.
–T. S. Eliot
from Four Quartets
II
Life is a maze with doors and they all open from the side your on:
keep on pushing hard, boy, try as you may,
you’re gonna wind up where you started from.
III
“I really enjoy forgetting. When I first come to a place, I notice all the little details. I notice the way the sky looks. The color of white paper. The way people walk. Doorknobs. Everything. Then I get used to the place and I don’t notice those things anymore. So only by forgetting can I see the place again as it really is.”